EpisodesEp. 274: How Coaches Communicate, feat. David PorterThis week we're joined by David Porter! David is a black belt under Pedro Sauer and manages XCAL Martial Arts in Ashburn, Virginia. In this episode, David discusses the importance of choosing your coaching language carefully. David shares best practices such as: focusing on evergreen mechanics, clarity in language, aligning with student goals, avoiding complacency, and naming conventions. Follow David on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lanky_mongoose Train with David at XCAL: https://xcal.com/ Check out David's instructionals on BJJ Fanatics: https://bjjfanatics.com/collections/all/fighter_dave-porter Mental models discussed in this episode: Cognitive Load https://bjjmentalmodels.com/cognitive-load/ Tokui Waza https://bjjmentalmodels.com/tokui-waza/ Concepts Over Techniques https://bjjmentalmodels.com/concepts-over-techniques/ Survivorship Bias https://bjjmentalmodels.com/survivorship-bias/ The Map Is Not the Territory https://bjjmentalmodels.com/the-map-is-not-the-territory/ Curse of Knowledge https://bjjmentalmodels.com/curse-of-knowledge/ Naming Concepts https://bjjmentalmodels.com/naming-concepts/ Don't forget to check out BJJ Mental Models Premium! If you love the podcast, you'll definitely love our premium membership offerings. 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