Emily LaFave is a gun nut, mother, and (I think) a woman (but the jury is still out on that one).
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Emily LaFave discusses her journey to self-acceptance through embracing failure rather than fearing it. She shares how she overcame perfectionism and the need for external validation, learning instead to value authenticity and personal growth. Emily emphasizes that respect for oneself is fundamental to healthy relationships, advising against settling in relationships and encouraging the patience to wait for the right person. The dialogue explores emotional maturity and setting boundaries, with Emily explaining how she's become comfortable cutting ties with people who don't align with her values. She discusses the importance of focusing on your own growth rather than changing yourself for others, noting that "no insecurity of mine was going to change my life" - only building on her strengths would create meaningful change. Emily offers wisdom on parenthood, sharing how honesty with her son about her past mistakes has strengthened their relationship. She reflects on finding happiness through creating a peaceful, stable life rather than seeking external validation or temporary pleasures. The conversation concludes with Emily's advice to her younger self: "Stop focusing your efforts on the wrong things every day. Stop trying to live for everyone else, because they are surely not living for you."
00:00 How did you become so comfortable in your own skin? 09:15 We adore the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who adore us 18:11 Virginity, Emotional Attachment, and Abandonment 32:37 How would Emily define a loving relationship? 42:07 Fearing, Hating, and Avoiding Failure 58:16 Aren: How Do Women Think? 01:10:25 Facing Reality and Letting Go 01:23:48 What would you have told yourself 10 years ago?
